Struggling with Patience

Galatians 5:22-23 (NIV)22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.

Everyday I make it a point to focus on having the fruit of the Spirit. Tarsi's of being a Christian disciple. Not always easy to maintain but a requirement nonetheless.

Love.

Joy.

Peace.

Why are these the easiest? At least for me.

Kindness.

Goodness.

Faithfulness.

Gentleness.

Yes, these take a bit more work, in this cruel world, but I manage.

Patience.

Self-Control.

Here in lies the problem.

Once I loose my patience, then goes my self control.  They both fly off the handle together.

Hard to hold on and to keep on a leash. Ugh.

I am waiting and then I am begging. I am chilling and then I whiling-out. 

What scriptures do you recall when u are losing patience?

What prayer do you say to help your self-control?

Thanks for Reading, my loves!

Nicole

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How To Twist Out on Natural Hair⎜NicoleCharnel

Hello Loves.
I struggled with trying to get the perfect twist out for a long time! I thought since my hair was so curly, I couldn't do a twist out. Then I tried this method; defining, coiling and twisting my hair. Using each of these techniques together allows me to get the best twist out for my naturally curly tresses.

Hope you enjoy this video!

Thanks for Watching and Reading!

Nicole

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Organizing & Relaxing⎜Collab with DivasHouse

Hello Loves!
This month I collated with my YT Noir Sister, Nikki.
She has a series on her channel where she talks about being an at home mother and diva! I wanted to join her on doing a video because sometimes it is a struggle to juggle our hats as women. But we are here to give you great tips on how, at home  moms, stay organized and relax.
Thanks for Watching!

DivaHouse Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0iUtbrsV42KRamTOR4WIGA
DivasHouse Video: https://youtu.be/fr08mnCFToM

Thanks for Watching & Reading!

Nicole

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Aunt Flo: Tips on Surviving

WARNING: I am talking about my monthly women cycle.
LOL
Just letting the 'gents know.

Each month it is a great struggle to make it through. Not sure why it hits so hard each time and I seem to forget how wasted I feel. Smh.
But nevertheless, I have to take care of my children, my home, and my self all while falling apart and bleeding to a-not-so-death.
Since I feel blindsided each month [LOL] thought I would share some tips on how I make it through this time.

One

Keep track of her coming and goings

usually I am caught off guard because I don't calculate. But If I clock my time, I can mentally and physically prepare myself for her coming to stay. Drink more water prior and such...

Two

Exercise more or regularly that week

I am not sure how or why this helps but if I exercise on a schedule the week of my cycle, it tends to keep my cramps to the minimum. Now I have HORRIBLE cramps so this just makes them bearable. But for someone who had mild cramps this probably will help eliminate them all together.

Three

Have a specific pain pill for cramps

Sometimes the pain is just too much or too distracting for regular mom life. So I have to take something. I usually use ibuprofen for headaches and I try not to use the same meds for my cramps. Mainly because it is usually not strong enough. Also I like to use a medicine that is made to target menstrual pain. This helps tremendously.

Four

Get enough rest, nap if you need too

8 hour plus at night and sometimes a nap during the day.  So you body has enough strength and energy to keep me through the cycle. The hormones, blood loss, and cramping. It is a lot going on and you body is on overtime for this time being.  More rest makes a huge difference.

Five

Don't put your life or day on hold

Even though I would love to lie in the bed all day, heating pad and hot tea....it is just not possible. And even if it is possible, still don't do it! This will train your body to expect the rest at this time. You want just the opposite; of your body to be able to work through the pain and focus you energy elsewhere.

I hope these tips help you next time Aunt Flo comes to visit. Don't let her wreck your life or ruin your day.
Thanks for reading, loves!

Nicole

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Get Ready With Me: Winged Liner

Sometimes we just want the simple look. When I feel like a light makeup look, this is what I do to my face. To make it a bit fancier, I added a winged liner.
I also love this look because it can go with ANY lip color.
Hope you enjoy!

Thanks for Watching!
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Nicole

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DIY Sweet Citrus Scrub

Are your lips feeling dry?
Is your skin drying out from the cold winter air?
Do you have some dark spots on your face that you want to lighten?
Are you breaking out on your face suddenly?
How about blackheads? Are they a problem?

I have one product that can assist with all these issues.
It is all natural and you can mix it up yourself!

My Sweet Citrus Scrub

Ingredients

• Lemon Juice
• Lemon Peel
• Honey
• Coconut Oil
• Sugar

Benefits of Honey:

• Fights Acne: Honey is naturally antibacterial, so it's great for acne treatment and prevention.
• Slows Down Aging: Full of antioxidants, it is great for slowing down aging.
• Complexion boost: It is extremely moisturizing and soothing, so it helps create a glow.
• Pores: Honey is clarifying because it opens up pores making them easy to unclog

Benefits of Lemon:

• Heals acne and remove blackheads: Lemons' antibacterial and anti-fungal properties make them a natural alternative to treat acne.
• Lightens dark spots and blemishes: Acne scars and marks are embarrassing and a pain to get rid of. Lemon juice's citric acid gradually fades spots and evens your skin tone.
• Soothes chapped lips: (See above)
• Helps tame oily skin: Due to disinfecting properties in the juice, it reduces bacteria in your pores.
• Cleanses: (See above)

Let me know if you will try this scrub out and what you think of it.
Also don't forget to RATE, COMMENT, & SUBSCRIBE!

As always, thanks for reading and watching!

Nicole

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Sources:

http://www.sheknows.com/beauty-and-style/articles/1017621/beauty-benefits-of-honey

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/13/lemon-beauty-benefits_n_3743905.html

Library Days

The Library...

They love it. An Easy play date for them munchkins.

Nicole

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End of the Challenge

My June Challenge was kind of a success.
I hung in there for a good 20 days straight. Then slacked the last 10. Better than ever tho.
I realized how it is easier for me to talk about certain things.
I also ned to improve on my writing skills. I am no novelist, lol
Over all tho, loved the challenge. And I need to share more. It is after all, what my blog is for.
Sharing about my personal life.
My Personal Thoughts & Feelings.

Thanks for Reading, my loves!

Nicole

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Start of  the Challenge: http://www.charnelsworld.com/2015_05_01_archive.html